Caring for the sheep - Tausiga o mamoe

Scripture Focus: 1 Samuelu 25:2-8

There was a man in Maon, whose possessions were in Carmel; and the man was very great, and he had three thousand sheep, and a thousand goats: and he was shearing his sheep in Carmel. Now the name of the man was Nabal; and the name of his wife Abigail; and the woman was of good understanding, and of a beautiful face: but the man was churlish and evil in his doings; and he was of the house of Caleb. David heard in the wilderness that Nabal was shearing his sheep. David sent ten young men, and David said to the young men, “Go up to Carmel, and go to Nabal, and greet him in my name. You shall tell him, ‘Long life to you! Peace be to you, and peace be to your house, and peace be to all that you have. Now I have heard that you have shearers. Your shepherds have now been with us, and we didn’t hurt them, neither was there anything missing from them, all the while they were in Carmel. Ask your young men, and they will tell you. Therefore let the young men find favor in your eyes; for we come in a good day. Please give whatever comes to your hand, to your servants, and to your son David.’”
- 1 Samuel 25:2-8 (WEB)

Study:

This passage introduces us to Nabal, a wealthy but “churlish” man, and David, who is establishing his reputation. David demonstrates respect by sending messengers to Nabal, requesting provisions in exchange for protecting Nabal’s shepherds and their flocks. He doesn’t demand payment, but politely asks for a reward for his kindness. Nabal’s initial response, though not included in these verses, is deeply disrespectful. This sets the stage for a conflict and highlights the contrasting qualities of leadership - David’s humility versus Nabal’s arrogance. The shearers and the care of the sheep were essential to Nabal’s wealth, and David rightly recognizes the importance of their protection. This illustrates the shepherd's responsibility to provide for and defend their flock.

Application:

As followers of Christ, we are called to be good shepherds of others, especially those entrusted to our care. This isn’t limited to formal leadership roles. It applies to how we treat family, friends, colleagues, and even strangers. David’s respectful approach serves as a model of diplomacy and humility. We should approach others with consideration and kindness, even when we feel justified in demanding something. Nabal’s selfishness is a warning against pride and a lack of gratitude. We must remember that all blessings come from God, and we should be generous in sharing them.

Reflection Questions:

• How does this passage portray the responsibilities of a shepherd?
• What can we learn from David’s respectful approach to Nabal?
• In what ways can we demonstrate the qualities of a good shepherd in our own lives?
• How does Nabal's character contrast with the character God desires for His people?
• Why is gratitude important in our relationships?

Prayer:

Loving Shepherd, help us to care for those you have placed in our lives with humility and compassion. Forgive us when we act selfishly, and grant us a spirit of generosity and gratitude. Guide us to be faithful shepherds, leading others to your loving care. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Tags:David, Nabal, Sheep, Shepherds, Kindness, Respect, Humility, Leadership, Gratitude, Provisions, 1 Samuel, Bible study, Spiritual growth