Distance and relationship - Va ma fesoota’iga

Scripture Focus: Iosua 22:10-31

When they came to the region about the Jordan, that is in the land of Canaan, the children of Reuben and the children of Gad and the half-tribe of Manasseh built there an altar by the Jordan, a great altar to look at. The children of Israel heard this, “Behold, the children of Reuben and the children of Gad and the half-tribe of Manasseh have built an altar in the forefront of the land of Canaan, in the region about the Jordan, on the side that pertains to the children of Israel.” When the children of Israel heard of it, the whole congregation of the children of Israel gathered themselves together at Shiloh, to go up against them to war. The children of Israel sent to the children of Reuben, and to the children of Gad, and to the half-tribe of Manasseh, into the land of Gilead, Phinehas the son of Eleazar the priest, and with him ten princes, one prince of a fathers’ house for each of the tribes of Israel; and they were everyone of them head of their fathers’ houses among the thousands of Israel. They came to the children of Reuben, and to the children of Gad, and to the half-tribe of Manasseh, to the land of Gilead, and they spoke with them, saying, “Thus says the whole congregation of Yahweh, ‘What trespass is this that you have committed against the God of Israel, to turn away this day from following Yahweh, in that you have built yourselves an altar, to rebel this day against Yahweh? Is the iniquity of Peor too little for us, from which we have not cleansed ourselves to this day, although there came a plague on the congregation of Yahweh, that you must turn away this day from following Yahweh? It will be, since you rebel today against Yahweh, that tomorrow he will be angry with the whole congregation of Israel. However, if the land of your possession is unclean, then pass over to the land of the possession of Yahweh, in which Yahweh’s tabernacle dwells, and take possession among us; but don’t rebel against Yahweh, nor rebel against us, in building an altar other than the altar of Yahweh our God. Didn’t Achan the son of Zerah commit a trespass in the devoted thing, and wrath fell on all the congregation of Israel? That man didn’t perish alone in his iniquity.’” Then the children of Reuben and the children of Gad and the half-tribe of Manasseh answered, and spoke to the heads of the thousands of Israel, “The Mighty One, God, Yahweh, the Mighty One, God, Yahweh, he knows; and Israel shall know: if it was in rebellion, or if in trespass against Yahweh (don’t save us this day), that we have built us an altar to turn away from following Yahweh; or if to offer burnt offering or meal offering, or if to offer sacrifices of peace offerings, let Yahweh himself require it. “If we have not out of concern done this, and for a reason, saying, ‘In time to come your children might speak to our children, saying, “What have you to do with Yahweh, the God of Israel? For Yahweh has made the Jordan a border between us and you, you children of Reuben and children of Gad. You have no portion in Yahweh.”’ So your children might make our children cease from fearing Yahweh. “Therefore we said, ‘Let’s now prepare to build ourselves an altar, not for burnt offering, nor for sacrifice; but it will be a witness between us and you, and between our generations after us, that we may perform the service of Yahweh before him with our burnt offerings, with our sacrifices, and with our peace offerings;’ that your children may not tell our children in time to come, ‘You have no portion in Yahweh.’ “Therefore we said, ‘It shall be, when they tell us or our generations this in time to come, that we shall say, “Behold the pattern of the altar of Yahweh, which our fathers made, not for burnt offering, nor for sacrifice; but it is a witness between us and you.”’ “Far be it from us that we should rebel against Yahweh, and turn away this day from following Yahweh, to build an altar for burnt offering, for meal offering, or for sacrifice, besides the altar of Yahweh our God that is before his tabernacle!” When Phinehas the priest, and the princes of the congregation, even the heads of the thousands of Israel that were with him, heard the words that the children of Reuben and the children of Gad and the children of Manasseh spoke, it pleased them well. Phinehas the son of Eleazar the priest said to the children of Reuben, to the children of Gad, and to the children of Manasseh, “Today we know that Yahweh is in the midst of us, because you have not committed this trespass against Yahweh. Now you have delivered the children of Israel out of the hand of Yahweh.”
- Joshua 22:10-31 (WEB)

Study:

This passage highlights a tense moment in Israel’s history when the tribes of Reuben, Gad, and the half-tribe of Manasseh built an altar near the Jordan River, outside the designated central place of worship. At first, the rest of Israel saw this as an act of rebellion against God’s command, risking division and conflict within the nation. However, upon investigation, it became clear that the altar was not for sacrifice but a memorial to preserve their shared faith and unity across geographical distances. The altar served as a witness to future generations that despite physical separation by the Jordan River, they remained united in their worship of Yahweh. This story reminds us how distance can challenge relationships but also how intentional communication and understanding preserve unity.

Application:

In today’s world, relationships—whether within families, churches, or communities—often face the challenges of distance, misunderstanding, or assumptions. Like the tribes of Reuben, Gad, and Manasseh, we must be intentional in maintaining connection and unity, especially when physically apart. The altar they built was a symbol of their ongoing relationship with God and with the rest of Israel. For us, it means creating bridges of understanding rather than walls of division, ensuring our actions honor God and foster peace with others even when differences or distances exist.

Reflection Questions:

• How do I handle conflict or misunderstanding in my relationships when distance is a factor?
• Am I intentional about maintaining unity and fellowship with others despite physical or cultural separation?
• What symbolic or practical ways can I create to witness my faith and commitment to God and community?
• How can I encourage communication that prevents division or suspicion among those I care about?

Prayer:

Lord, help me to maintain unity and understanding in my relationships, even when we are apart or face disagreements. Teach me to build bridges rather than walls, reflecting Your love and faithfulness. May my actions honor You and be a witness to others of Your grace and peace. Amen.

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